My New Friend, Ryan

I just spent 3 days on Mackinac Island in northern Michigan with 24 youth and chaperones from my congregation, along with almost 1000 other youth. We had a great time learning more about God as our mighty fortress. We focused in on 2 Samuel 22:2, “The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer….”

It was great to be able to gather in the fort built on the rock of Mackinac Island for a group event one evening. It reinforced the power of God that protects us so we can go on the offensive to attack Satan and his influence in the world. We were emboldened by the Good News of our free forgiveness from Jesus that inspires us to hand out life to the world.

A relevant example of that effort to share the Gospel took place just before the event in the fort. Our group was gathered on the lawn in front of the fort. We decided to take a group picture with the fort as our backdrop. Here’s that picture…

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If you look closely toward the center of our group, you’ll see that our photo was “bombed” by a man with both arms raised. He was sitting on the edge of the statue behind us and couldn’t resist the opportunity. After I looked at the picture on my phone and realized what he’d done, I made eye contact with him and shared a big smile. This opened the door for a great conversation with my new friend, Ryan. As we talked, I learned that Ryan grew up in MN, near where I first served as a pastor. We shared more stories. When Ryan asked about our group, it opened a great door for witness. He was eager to hear about why we were there and what we were learning.

I could have reacted with judgement or anger to Ryan’s photo bomb. Instead, it was great to be able to point Ryan’s eyes to the awesome, powerful love of Jesus, our Mighty Fortress. Another example of being ready to hand out life wherever we go.

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A Wedding Focused on Jesus

jess-weddingIt was a joy for me to attend the wedding of my nephew last week. He and his new bride are clearly focused on putting Jesus first in their relationship. They have the right attitude of humble trust in the Lord. It’s such an attitude that has blessed them in their lives so far and WILL bless them with a lasting and joyful marriage. I can say this with complete confidence. The Lord is our STRENGTH!

If you’re attending any weddings this summer and you see a couple that’s keeping their eyes on Jesus and pointing everyone else to Jesus, then thank God for them. Also, tell them how thankful you are for their witness to the world. The more marriages that are established in Jesus’ way, the more witnesses there will be who will lead more to eternity in Jesus’ love.

Praise God for the gift of marriage. Praise Jesus for the gift of His love as our perfect Husband.

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The Great Deceiver

Photo by j_mills

Photo by j_mills

“The Great Deceiver” is the name of a Bible study that several other men and I started this week. It focuses on how the devil, Satan, Lucifer…is VERY real and is an expert at deception. His greatest trick is to lure people into the deception that there is NO devil, NO punishment for sin, NO hell and NO Savior (since there’s no need for one). Jesus, as our Savior, is pointless. We can do what we want. When we die, we receive varying degrees of good things based on how good we’ve been.

People are eager to live in this deception. They can do what they want. They can cheat on their spouse, abandon their family, live for selfish gratification…all with no major consequence. I’ve been seeing a rash of this even among those who claim the name of “Christian.” They go to church with a smile on their face and nice clothes on their back. They pretend everything is great in their relationships and life as a whole.

It’s a big lie! When we don’t live up to God’s plan for loving relationships that are selfless and sacrificial, we WILL face many terrible consequences. I’ve had to face the broken hearts and lives left behind by Satan’s deception. Beneath the smiles on the outside, the pain of brokenness, separation and divorce runs deep and doesn’t just slip away in time. It causes heartache, suffering and pain for the rest of this life. AND, because God IS real and He HAS promised punishment for sin in hell, along with Satan, the suffering for sin is eternal. When we abandon God’s plan for relationships, there will be hell to pay.

That’s why we so desperately need a Savior. We need Jesus. We need His free forgiveness for when we follow the lies of Satan. Jesus does not lie. He WILL forgive us as we flee to Him. He will give us a new start from all the brokenness in our relationships. He will show us a way of sacrificial love that yields inner peace, contentment, joy and happiness. Even if we’ve been deceived in the past, we can start new…in Jesus. We can give up the lie we’ve been living. We can start to be honest about the way we’ve hurt others. We can join in worship as fellow broken sinners to confess to each other, forgive each other and walk forward in freedom with each other.

Don’t let the “Great Deceiver” rob you of the joy that Jesus wants you to have now and forever. Tell Satan to get behind you. Turn to Jesus and receive forgiveness for your failed relationships. Learn from Jesus how to live in His way. Humbly seek help from a pastor and fellow Christians who’ve been deceived just like you. Together we can expose the lies of Satan. Together we can reveal our own lies and be freed from their destructive power. Together we can walk in the truth and joy of the Lord forever.

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Germany Tour Presentation

This Sunday, June 4th, the group that recently traveled with me to Germany and Switzerland will be sharing pictures and stories. We’ll meet in the Music Room at Faith Lutheran Church in Grand Blanc from 9:30 to 10:30a.m. Everyone’s welcome.

One of the highlights for me was seeing where Martin Luther lived his real life with his wife, Katie, and their children. Luther was not an abstract theorist when it came to family life. He lived it himself. He learned and taught about the importance of Jesus’ love at the heart of the family. First of all, there must be a regular practice of confession and forgiveness among the family members. There’s also the great importance of regular Bible study and catechetical review. God’s Word is the all important guide for life in the family. In that Word we learn of the perfect sacrificial, unconditional and incarnational love of Jesus that flows over into the family.

Martin Luther's Home in Wittenburg, Germany

Martin Luther’s Home in Wittenberg, Germany

I’d love to share more insights gained from walking the streets where Luther walked. Join us this Sunday to hear and see more.

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Icons of Jesus

Icon = a person or thing regarded as a representative symbol of something.

Every relationship in your life is to be an “icon” of the relationship between Jesus and His beloved bride, the church. The way you love others is to reflect the way Jesus loves you. Our love, like the love of Jesus, is to be sacrificial, unconditional and incarnational. We’re to give up our own self-love. We’re to love others no matter what. We’re to care for the physical well-being of all those around us.

I often refer to the three aspects of love (sacrificial, unconditional and incarnational) as the “marriage triangle.” When these three aspects of love are all present in equal measure, it fulfills the command for marriage as prescribed in Gen. 2:24, “Therefore a man will leave his father and mother (sacrificial), hold fast to his wife (unconditional), and the two will become one flesh (incarnational).” Jesus shows all three of these aspects of love to us perfectly. He is the perfect husband. We are His blessed bride. His “marriage triangle” is the perfect model for us to follow.

Now, every day in all our relationships, we’re to be creating “miniature marriage triangles.” Our relationships should be marked by sacrificial, unconditional and incarnational love that reflects this love of Jesus. Our “miniature marriage triangles,” then, are “icons” of Jesus’ love. Such icons of Jesus appear when sacrificial, unconditional and incarnational love is evident between…

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parents & children

children & parents

brothers & sisters

pastors & congregations

church members & church members

Christians & the world

Such a perspective on our relationships keeps it simple and memorable. We don’t have to create something new in every relational context. We don’t have to figure out the new dynamics of how to love the new people we meet. Every relationship is to be an icon of Jesus and His relationship to us. Love that is  sacrificial, unconditional and incarnational is what is required in every relationship. The more we receive such perfect love from Jesus, the more we’re able to reflect that love in all our relationships.

Keep your “thumb up” to Jesus and His perfect love for you. His love is the perfect “marriage triangle.”

As you relate to all the people in your life, reflect that “marriage triangle.” May ALL our relationships be “icons” of Jesus and His love.

 

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God’s Beauty Is Best

Praising God for His awesome handy work in a beautiful Swiss valley.

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Covered Bridge in Lucerne

Beauty created by skilled hands in ages gone by is always inspiring. 

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All for One in Switzerland

Our group has bonded well in Christian love on our Germany and Switzerland tour. Tonight we saluted our unity by raising fondue skewers together in Lucerne, Switzerland. 

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The Winding Road

The way of life is always winding around, just like the road we took into the Bavarian Alps yesterday.  The way may seem frustrating or pointless if we don’t have a clear destination. Yesterday we were on our way to Oberammergau and it was worth it. Our way in life is leading to heaven with our Bridegroom, Jesus, and it WILL be worth it!

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Shared Joy

Speaking of enjoying the winding way toward our heavenly castle,  I’m sure enjoying this journey with my “number one” next to Jesus…my dear wife, Heather:)

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