Abandoning the Family

My wife, Heather, and I were just reflecting on all the changes we’ve seen in the congregations I’ve served for the past 28 years. One thing that struck us both is the number of people who have simply “dropped out” along the way. These are members of the faith family that haven’t moved away, joined another worshiping body or died. They’ve just fallen off the radar. Why? It’s a puzzle. Many were very active members of the family. Most never showed any sign of discontent. Efforts were made to connect with them when they first started to drift away. Many more efforts were made to draw them back. But, for whatever reason, they just disappeared from the fellowship.

I quickly commented to Heather, “How can you just walk away from your family like that?” But, I had to quickly agree with Heather that the same problem DOES impact biological families on a regular basis. In fact, it’s a growing epidemic in the U.S. Family associations are quickly abandoned. Children forget about their parents. Parents disappear and leave behind orphans. Spouses slowly distance themselves from each other or just pack up and move out in a day. Yes, family ties ARE vulnerable…biologically AND spiritually.

It’s sad.

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Photo by MerelyRachel

The Devil knows how to get at us. He knows that when we’re separated from others we’re MUCH more vulnerable to His influence. He can easily fill us with thoughts of anger, jealousy, depression, insignificance, hatred, grief, despair and more when we’re trying to resist such thoughts alone.

Jesus has an answer to these lies; fellowship with Him and with others who love Him. He calls us to unite with Him and receive His free forgiveness and ongoing strength against Satan. As Jesus says to us in John 15:5, “I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” In Him, we have a joy that enables us to stand strong against all the negative thoughts that can drive us into hopeless isolation. As Nehemiah told the people of Israel as they were faced with their sin, so the Spirit still speaks to us, “the joy of the Lord is your strength.” (Nehemiah 8:10)

Don’t let the Devil pull you away…from your biological family or your faith family. Stay connected to Jesus and others in the Truth that sets you free from isolation. It’s in fellowship with Jesus that eternal joy endures. It’s in fellowship with others that hold this same hope that we stand strong against the Devil. TOGETHER, we will have a joy that will never end.

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Marriage Proclaims God’s Foolish Way for Justification

This past Tuesday I led an opening devotion for a regional gathering of pastors. I shared thoughts that were well received and decided to repeat some of it here.

The conference theme was that God’s way of justification by grace through faith in our crucified Savior, Jesus, is foolishness in our current culture. Along those lines, I noted how marriage is a perfect illustration of this. God’s way for marriage is a way of sacrifice and unconditional commitment. It reflects that we’re justified freely as a gift purchased for us by the sacrifice and unconditional love of Jesus. He willingly went to the cross for us. In marriage, we’re to be ready to do the same for our spouse…sacrificing and committing unconditionally, even if it’s not always fun. This is a theology of the cross rather than a theology of glory. And, it’s something that our culture thinks is totally foolish! To most, marriage is supposed to be something that SERVES me and makes me always HAPPY! That’s what the Disney movies taught us as kids…we are to live “happily ever after.”


God’s way for justification and marriage is a way that isn’t always happy, but it IS always the way of REAL, ENDURING JOY! We ARE forgiven for free by what Jesus did on the cross. We can be 100% sure of our salvation because of His gift of love. That’s cause for pure joy. Marriage in God’s way reflects the same thing. As a couple commits to sacrificially and unconditionally love one another, they won’t always be happy, but their REAL JOY will grow through all their days until death parts them. A couple that lives in such love and enjoys such love is a living picture of God’s way of justification for all the world to see. It helps the world to understand the mysteries of God that to natural reason are totally foolish. And, by the power of the Holy Spirit, more and more will be led to receive the gift of justification. They’ll also be led to live and love in God’s way for marriage in a way that will bless them and all who see them.
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Author’s Showcase April 7th

Would love to have you drop by McFarlen library in Grand Blanc, MI on Saturday, April 7th from 1-4pm. I’ll be taking part in a local authors’ showcase, sharing info., answering questions and signing copies of my book, Handing Out Life. Come join me in supporting the community and sharing the gift of God’s word on relationships. Plus, I’ll have free candy 😉

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Winter Camping

Last Friday night I had the joy of camping with my daughter, Hannah, who was wrapping up her “spring” break. We stayed in our new camper-van as a test run for future mission trips and recreation. Our campsite was in Bay City State Park on the Saginaw Bay of Lake Huron. Even though it got down to 22 degrees Fahrenheit at night, we were cozy in our camper. We made awesome chicken alfredo in the instant pot and enjoyed some beautiful scenes in God’s creation. I was in awe, again, of God’s handiwork. Enjoy the following photos to the glory of God!

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Stewardship of Marriage

I just read an excellent article on a topic dear to my heart…the stewardship of marriage. It is the latest StewardCAST article from LCMS Stewardship Ministry. Link to it by clicking HERE.

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This article contains some excellent points. As I’ve also said before, “…stewardship is not so much about what is done, but rather the identity of the one doing it.” And, since our identity comes from the God who made us “male and female” who are to “become one flesh” in marriage, it follows that our stewardship begins with a foundational understanding and respect for the institution of marriage. Indeed, “The relationship between husband and wife as established by the Lord in creation is the key to all the other relationships that exist in the congregation.” As the article continues, “Stewardship of marriage lays the foundation for not only creating, but bringing to faith the next generation of believers. … Good stewards of marriage serve as teachers of faith and life.”

This great article goes on to discuss the danger of a “disposability and non-permanent attitude toward marriage” creeping into our congregations. It is only when we foster strong, permanent marriages in God’s way that we will properly reflect the strength and permanence of the love of Jesus that the next generation and all the world will be able to see and learn.

It is also important that we help marriages through the struggles of financial management since many marriages come to an end over such matters. Wise stewardship of marriage includes training with resources such as Financial Peace University and Money and Marriage God’s Way from Compass. Everything we do to strengthen the institution of marriage will benefit individuals, marriages, congregational families and the world that sees us. As the article summarizes near the end, “Marriage is foundational in a congregation. Good stewardship of marriage enables a congregation to be faithful stewards of the Gospel.”

I encourage you to read and apply the ideas in this article both personally and congregationally. Wise stewardship of marriage is key to healthy marriages, healthy families, healthy congregations and the proclamation of the Gospel.

 

 

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Citizen of the Year

This week I received notice that I had been nominated as Citizen of the Year for an annual awards banquet hosted by our local Chamber of Commerce. My first response was, “WHAT? Why me?” Then, as I read the letter asking me to answer three further questions about myself, I said, “No way! I’m not going to brag about myself!” However, I was softened by the wise input of my dear wife and some other trusted friends who advised, “Use this  as an opportunity to praise God for all the good things HE has done in and through you. It’s not about you, but it IS about giving glory to Jesus.”

So, I submitted to the will of others and started to fill out the form. As I did, I was surprised and awed to recall some of the things the Holy Spirit had accomplished over these past 10 years that I’ve been a part of the Grand Blanc community. I decided it would be fitting to share what I wrote on this blog as a way to give a big THUMBS UP TO JESUS! Jesus is THE source of all that I do and He is THE focal point upon which I wish to direct my gaze and the gaze of everyone I encounter each day. I pray that what I share below will help you better see Jesus and what His love can do as we humbly trust in Him to guide us. To JESUS be all the glory!

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Grand Blanc Chamber of Commerce – Chairman’s Award Nomination Information

For Citizen of the Year 2018 Nominee, Rev. Dr. Todd A. Biermann of Faith Lutheran Church

  1. Please elaborate on some of the things you do to help others and your community.

Wrote the award winning book, Handing Out Life, to teach and inspire healthy and rewarding relationships in marriages, families, business associations and all of life.

Speak regularly on the principles of Handing Out Life to small groups, business leaders, employees, community leaders and more.

Regularly travel nationally and internationally to speak and establish programs of care for marriages and families in crisis (Guatemala, Paraguay, Panama, Peru, S. Africa).

Participate regularly in book fairs at Grand Blanc McFarlen Library to speak and provide a print resource for the betterment of our community.

Provide emergency counsel and support as an “on-call” chaplain to hospital and hospice patients and families at Genesys and other area hospitals.

Provide emergency counsel and support for local police and fire personnel and community members in crisis.

Provide emergency counsel and support for students, teachers and staff in the Grand Blanc school system in times of crisis and loss such as at the death of beloved teacher Charlie Carmody and recent suicides.

Assist local funeral homes in caring for families who have no other support as they deal with the death of a loved one, esp. in crisis situations such as suicide and accidental death.

Provide guidance and support to local school officials in student care and long-term planning, esp. through meeting with Superintendent Clarence Garner and Deputy Superintendent Trevor Alward.

Provided leadership training to teachers and staff of the Grand Blanc School system as part of their “Positivity Project” and am in discussion on how to continue such training.

Served on and spoke to the Grand Blanc Character Council to build up moral character in our community.

Working with area non-profit leaders to organize a single Grand Blanc center for assistance of food and clothing to the needy. Currently in talks to establish a charter, raise funds and acquire a building.

Help host and provide counsel to area teens through a basketball program geared toward students who lack family support and opportunity to play elsewhere. In talks with Grand Blanc Township Chief of Police, Wiles, to build a mentorship program between his officers and the teen athletes.

Volunteer with community events such as C of C skeet shooting to support important causes.

Volunteer at the Franklin Avenue Mission on Flint’s east side to feed, counsel and support the destitute members of that impoverished community.

Hosted and opened a debate between candidates for the Grand Blanc City Council.

Hosted and spoke for an event to honor area veterans.

Regularly give blood (several gallons) to the American Red Cross.

Work 60+ hours per week to provide pastoral care and guidance to a congregation of nearly 2000 souls.

  1. Please explain what drives you to find time to help others. This could be because of past experience, upbringing, an influential friend, etc.

My parents modelled and taught a deep love for my fellow man, esp. those who are impoverished in body or spirit. This concern was fostered through caring teachers and mentors throughout my life. My concern for the well-being of young people grew strong through my work as a summer camp counselor and program director at camps across the U.S. each summer of my 8 years of post-secondary education. A few hours of invested time changed the lives of some of these teens forever. My dear wife, Heather, has continued to be my greatest inspiration and cheerleader for our ongoing efforts together to help others, starting with our own two children and spreading out to everyone we meet.

Of course, the most important inspiration and power for my help to others comes from my deeply held faith in Jesus Christ as the one who first gave me the greatest help of all; forgiveness for sin, freedom from evil and hope for eternal joy with Him. Having received such free blessings through my relationship with Jesus, I cannot help but pass them along in any way possible to everyone possible. This is my greatest desire and joy.

  1. What additional information would you like us to know about how you have chosen to live your life by giving to others?

Healthy relationships are the key to peace, contentment and joy in all of life. I’m driven to guide everyone around me to such relationships so that they might be free from the devastating power of evil and empowered to live with hope each day now and for eternity. My greatest joy in life is to help one more person receive such lasting blessings that will flow through them to countless others.

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Created Male & Female

Created Male & Female is the title of an open letter released in the U.S. on Dec. 15, 2017 by twenty key religious leaders including two from the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod. I encourage you to read it HERE. You can also read further information about the involvement of the LCMS in the production and release of this letter in the LCMS’ Reporter Online HEREreporter-header-2013

I fully support the points made in this letter as they fit perfectly with what I teach from God’s Word about marriage and life in God’s way. “Natural marriage” between one man and one woman is God’s plan for contentment, peace, stability and perpetuity in our society. When we follow God’s way, we enjoy the best possible way of life. When we fight this way, we invite Satan’s evil influence and much suffering into life. The same is true regarding our sexual identity as male and female. When we follow the biological order God has put into creation, making us male or female, we reap abundant blessings. When we fight this order or try to manipulate it to suit our sinful desires, we bring more heartache and pain into our lives.

I truly appreciate the evangelical tone of the letter. While it points out that God’s plan is the only right way to live, it doesn’t attack those who are living outside of this plan. Instead, it treats them with loving care, stating “We desire the health and happiness of all men, women, and children.” Indeed! That’s why I invite you to join me in proclaiming God’s good way for sexual identity and human relationships. Join also in praying earnestly that more and more will be set free from Satan’s deception and directed to live all of life with a “Thumbs Up” perspective focused on Jesus, our loving and gracious Savior!

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Super Supper

The Lord’s Supper, Holy Communion, the Holy Eucharist, the Sacrament of the Altar…no matter what you call it, this gift from Jesus is precious. It gives us free forgiveness of our sins and strengthens our faith. It unites us with our Lord, Jesus, in a mysterious physical union. It could be easy to take this gift for granted since we receive it regularly. However, it never loses its power. Our eternal Lord and Savior, Jesus, gives it His eternal power.

Recently I had the privilege to give the Supper to a young boy for the first time in his life. His empty, outstretched hands were small, tender, supplicating. The look in his eyes was one of wonder, awe, humility and hopefulness. It was my delight to be able to give him such a precious gift that brought immediate joy to his face. He realized he had just had his first taste of a feast that would last for eternity.

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In the past three months I’ve also had the privilege to give the Supper to six members of my flock for the last time before they left this earth in death. Each one received the gift with the same wonder, awe, humility and eager hopefulness. Although they’d received the gift countless times during their walk of life on earth, the Supper never lost its power for them. It gave them the strength they needed for life, death and the entrance into paradise where they are now receiving nourishment from Jesus face to face.

From the first to the last, the Body and Blood of Jesus in His supper is powerful. In fact, as I consider that tomorrow is Super Bowl Sunday, I must boldly say that the Super bowl is NOTHING in comparison to this Supper. It is the Super Supper that gives us the ultimate victory over sin, death and hell. There’s NOTHING more SUPER than that!

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Sunshine

It’s amazing how awesome a little warm sunshine feels after a long cold and dreary spell. Today it’s already 45 degrees out and moving up into the 50’s. Pretty incredible for Michigan in the winter. I took our dog, Toby, for a walk and we both enjoyed soaking up the warmth. Sunshine seems all the warmer after the cold.2014-07-13-07-56-15

The same is true for so many who are living in the cold spiritually. Either they’ve never known the warmth of the Son, Jesus, or they knew it but have been away for so long they’ve forgotten His warmth. What a privilege we have to be able to shine the warmth of the Son upon them. Some may still reject it. Just like today, there are many who’d rather not walk outside. They’re too busy. They’re too tired. They’re too worried about something. They’re…missing out. But, for those who allow the sun to shine on them, it’s a gorgeous day. It warms the bones and the soul.

Don’t hide from the Sun! Let His rays of grace shine full upon you. Hear His Word of love FOR YOU! Receive His baptismal blessings FOR YOU! Feast on His Supper FOR YOU!  All His awesome gifts WILL shine through the cold darkness and warm you through and through.

Then, reflect that warm Sonlight to the world. There are many who will delight in the warmth after the cold!

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Reclaimed…2!

bens-pretzels-verticalFor the last couple of weeks I’ve been talking about my family’s recent trip to Shipshewana, IN. Last week I spoke about some barn wood that had been reclaimed from the fires of the trash heap and turned into something beautiful. This week I want to talk about someone who has a similar story.

As I said before, in Shiphshewana we enjoyed the delicious pretzels at “Ben’s Soft Pretzels.” While there, it was immediately obvious that the owners of this establishment had a very strong faith in Jesus Christ as Savior. It was clear in the signs on the walls, the conduct of the employees and in the music being played. I commented on this as I struck up a conversation with Jerry, the business developer for Ben’s. As we talked, I learned that he had a beautiful personal story of being reclaimed. Jerry had grown up in the Amish community. However, as Jerry started to study the Word of God, he discovered truths that consumed him. He learned that he was freely forgiven by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit took hold of Jerry and filled him more and more as he studied the Word of God more and more. Jerry started inviting family, friends and acquaintances to join him in studying the precious truths of God’s Word. Unfortunately, Jerry’s fervor was not appreciated by the broader Amish community. In fact, he was eventually shunned and was told that his current path was leading him to the fires of hell.

This, however, didn’t quell the Spirit and deter Jerry’s fervor to continue studying God’s Word and receiving the joy of the Gospel in that Word. Jerry’s certainty of heaven for Jesus’ sake was stronger than ever. It spilled over in all of his life including his work at Ben’s. It’s this zeal for the Lord, Jesus that is so gloriously evident at Ben’s and in Jerry’s personal life.

Jerry had been reclaimed! He had been shunned and condemned to destruction in hell. However, Jesus had a different message for Jerry. Jesus had gone through hell in Jerry’s place. Jesus freely forgave Jerry of all his sins and assured him of a place in heaven forever. The resultant joy in Jerry’s life couldn’t be contained. All glory be to God for His incomparable grace!

So, if you ever stop in at “Ben’s Soft Pretzels” in Shipshewana, look up Jerry and tell him I said “Hi.” AND, most of all, join with Jerry and me and all who know Jesus as Savior as we proclaim His glorious Good News without fear!

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